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Gary Vaynerchuk: Gary Vaynerchuk - I suck!

  • AJ Vaynerchuk · 1 year ago
    You suck at tagging too :P

    Tags: suck
  • Robert P. · 1 year ago
    But, dude, what if you rock at talking about what you suck at?

    JK. Good thoughts.
  • sandieman · 1 year ago
    iSuck - new viddler group?
  • TimWalker · 1 year ago
    Amen, sir. We can beat ourselves forever about all the stuff we're bad at -- or all the books we haven't read, all the corners of the world we haven't visited, all the wines we haven't sampled, etc. -- but it's no way to live.

    Part of REALLY growing up, I think, is to embrace who you ACTUALLY are, instead of always thinking about what you're lacking.

    Keep spreading the good word, Gary!
  • ChrisClark · 1 year ago
    Great point, Gary. Something I still wonder about though is how do you figure out what you're good at? I think it's true for a lot of artistic/creative people that, even when they're told that they're good at something, they're not so sure. I know that's true for me.

    But, anyway, good point in this vid. I'm trying to focus a lot less on what I suck at.
  • Mykl Roventine · 1 year ago
    Great point, Gary. You're absolutely right. I think it's easy to fall into the habit of judging ourselves too harshly. This is certainly reinforced by the tendency mainstream media to over-scrutinize their subjects. Thanks for the reminder to stay positive!
  • busteesm · 1 year ago
    Great Point. It's similar to a point you mentioned at the 1223 event last night. The biggest thing you seem to do well, is just put yourself out there, and luckily that isn't confined to extremely extroverted people such as yourself. Blogging is a perfect tool for an introvert to show the value of the concepts they have mulled over inside and if you're worried about how people will react to what you're saying, you can take your time and revise it 15 times if you so please.
  • pamslim · 1 year ago
    Yeah, hallelujah, rock on, I agree!

    Soooo much wasted energy on "I suck at..."

    You are a fantastic example of what happens when you don't worry about that crap and instead play up your strengths.

    Good reminder!

    :)
    -Pam
  • Joshua Oiknine · 1 year ago
    I completely agree. People need to stop trying to follow and compare themselves to false role models. Find something you are good at and follow people that are good at that thing as well. This is a path to much success.
  • Carlos Pero · 1 year ago
    Most people can easily identify the things they know they suck at. There are things they think they are good at, but may not be in other people's eyes, so they try it can get frustrated. Few people truly rock at something, that they'll be able to make a difference. But you're right, that's where their focus should be. If their time isn't now, it may be in the future.
  • Violet · 1 year ago
    good point gary, thanks. I'm trying to focus on the better things in my life in general. This was a good reminder.
  • Melissa (Pronoia) Pierce · 1 year ago
    And just in case you have spent so long trying to improve what you suck at. The life coach in my recommends the book Now Discover Your Strengths. I force all of my clients read it. :)
  • wolfgang · 1 year ago
    Nice
  • Jeff Macpherson · 1 year ago
    I have noticed that creative people who excel at what they do are also quite ruthlessly critical of their work.

    Creative people who do embarrassingly bad work often seem blind to how bad they suck. I suppose that's how they are able to put out such cringe worthy work and puff their chest.

    So if you think you are awesome in your creative work and can do no wrong, you likely suck.

    If you often doubt your work and think it sucks, you are either right in which case you fix it and improve, or you are wrong, in which case you rock and there's no problem.

    -Dr Tiki
  • Kenon K. · 1 year ago
    Gary I totally agree. If we spend so much time focusing on our own crap issues and the issues of other people we miss the opportunity to shine. The best way I've heard it put is this: Sometimes we spend so much time and effort gathering the driftwood on the beach, that when that beautiful starfish comes along, our hands are too full to embrace real beauty.
  • Dave Weinberg · 1 year ago
    very inspirational...lol. Is that a mini personal pep rally for your book signing tonight?>
  • David Cole · 1 year ago
    You mentioned reading, so I will suggest a book "Now,Discover Your Strengths". So your point is HUGE, people should work from their strengths and the book could help some folks!
    The other point about folks working from "I suck" attitude is they associate it with money. They are two different things! Broke is a state of being, poor is an attitude. Broke can be changed, but poor thinking as in "I suck" is difficult to overcome till you find your strengths or work from a position of passion!!

    Follow your passion, your dreams and fly with eagles!
  • steve · 1 year ago
    great point. everyone sucks at a lot of things...but those same people probably have some outrageous talent or skill they aren't even aware of. As always Gary, thanks for the down to earth straight talk.
  • Tim · 1 year ago
    I am in such a competitive field and I find myself concentrating on what I suck at so I can get better in those areas. But I agree GV that we all need to think and remember what we are good at and emphasize those too. Thanks for the reminder to appreciate the positives.
  • Rowland · 1 year ago
    word bird.
  • Jesse · 1 year ago
    What if someone wants to rock at sucking? J/K This ability is hard to learn, but successful people do this unconsciously

    Born with the IT factor.
  • Steve Woolf · 1 year ago
    you suck at sucking.

    ;)
  • Leora · 1 year ago
    Gary you suck at Cranium! :P Challenge you to another game!
  • Steve James · 1 year ago
    [insert witty inspirational reply comment here]
  • Rani Haykal · 1 year ago
    Words to live by.
  • ChrisH · 1 year ago
    Amen Gary! It drives me nuts when people at work refuse to admit they don't know something or are not as skilled as someone else may be. Embracing what you know and what you love, and then letting someone else handle the rest, is the key to being successful in business and life. Surrounding ourselves with people who help balance us out is what it is all about.

    I rarely feel ashamed to admit I don't know how to do something. That is what training, freelancers, friends and family are for. Embrace your strengths and admit your weaknesses everyone! Once I accepted that, my job got a lot easier.
  • MikeRevolution · 1 year ago
    This is the 80/20 rule come to life. Focus on what you excel at, it will reap the greatest rewards and returns. Spend less time on the non-essential. Hack away at it until you are an efficient producer of your best work.

    Besides, life's way too short to worry about what you suck at.
  • LaLaFuFu dotcom · 1 year ago
    Gary, You suck really good! Keep up the good work :)
  • NewWorldOrder · 1 year ago
    Hey David,

    I read "Now, Discover Your Strengths" and I think "Go Put Your Strengths to Work" is faaar better. Check it out one weekend in Borders or something.
  • Billy Butler · 1 year ago
    FIRST
  • The Lazy Canadian · 1 year ago
    I liked it. Nicely done. Good message.
  • carianoff · 1 year ago
    A timely message for me, Thx man.
  • Milos · 1 year ago
    Accentuate your qualities and virtues. Don't obsess over things you could be better at. Work on improving them, but don't obsess. Great point Gary! :)
  • bronsont · 1 year ago
    Only thing I see you sucking at is friending up the vayner nation on Plurk, and you suck at that LOL. And you need to "Link it Up Gary" to your Plurk site!
  • larry Leichtman · 1 year ago
    Ah, many of your contests are video and some of just can't do them
  • Nick Leung · 1 year ago
    Thanks Gary for the reminder. Things I've learned from you:
    1. Follow your passion
    2. Create and reach out to community
    3. Be good and live life!
    And Of course!
    4. Focus on what you're good at =)

    Keep it up Gary!!
  • Greg Wilker · 1 year ago
    Lets see what about being good and sucking at the same thing? (kinda)

    I'm a good drawer but I suck at actually drawing.

    What I mean by this is I never draw anymore for one reason or another. Mostly cause of time or lack of motivation.
  • Nathan · 1 year ago
    Getting your outlook on communities and social media is very very refreshing. And honestly helps give me the drive to keep my own web projects going.

    Next time you come to Austin I'll be sure to help you meet your goal of meeting every human on earth.

    P.S. You always look mad in that first frame of every video, makes me think something is wrong, or maybe you're just tired. Get some sleep.
  • mlong · 1 year ago
    Yep. Good points.

    What's with the lisp though? Maybe it was my audio.
    not trying to be smartass.
  • David Kudrev · 1 year ago
    I've been criticised (harshly, yet constructively) about our podcast, which we've just started (only at the 3rd episode so far).. At first it made me want to quit, and go "boy maybe I do suck at podcasting?" but then I thought F**K that! I'm not going to let that hurt/offend us!

    I guess I'm going off topic, but the point is, if people give you feedback, and hinting that you suck, don't take it to heart people! But yeah, good points there Gary!
  • Roberto Rojas · 1 year ago
    well we all suck at a lot of things. The difference between the people who excel and those who don't is measured (among other things) by how well you accentuate your assets and diminish your suck-at things....


    I, for one, suck at blog comments...

    And, who really cares what we all suck-at anyway? think about it....
  • Paul · 1 year ago
    ^_^ thumbs up!
  • Craig · 1 year ago
    Well said!
  • Rob Jensen · 1 year ago
    Well said. There a lot of things I want to do or probably better put like the idea of doing. I would love to be to just sit down, code and pump out an awesome web application however I have found what I am really good at is talking to people, driving out ideas, and setting out the steps to execute. So because I cannot think like a coder doesn't mean I can't do a web startup... it just means I need to partner with someone to help round out the skill set while focusing on how I can add value.
  • Voxx · 1 year ago
    Hi Gary,
    Nice to meet ya. I'm a fan of your show (my boyfriend turned me onto it).

    I'm following you on Twitter, and I wish you'd "follow me" too :)

    I'm a professional Psychic from Los Angeles, featured in the book, "The Top 100 Psychics in America", and a fellow Dionysian. Hey, I have a question for you. On an old episode of "Bewitched", they mentioned a wine called, "Chanson de la Mer 1953". My psychic sense tells me there is no such wine, but I just wanted your professional opinion. Thanks!

    Keep up the great work!

    Blessings,
    Voxx
    http://twitter.com/Voxx
  • Jesse Thomas · 1 year ago
    the glass is half full
  • kidder · 1 year ago
    Dude you sound like Sylvester the Cat!!!! What's up with the video quality??? Ha ha ha.. thanks for making me laugh today......
  • kidder · 1 year ago
    Suffering Suckkkahtash!!!!
  • Jose "DON FUBAR" Sanchez · 1 year ago
    I live by the same phrase only put differently to make it sound better:

    "Nobody's Perfect"

    Keep rockin GV!
  • Mr. Javo · 1 year ago
    That's correct man. We need to think positively and stop thinking negatively, like the people do the most of the times.
  • BobM · 1 year ago
    Gary, I'm planning on attending the 500th episode at Crushpad. I had paid $50, which has now been refunded. Do I need to RSVP again?
  • Shannon Borg · 1 year ago
    Hey Gary! Ok, I took the challenge and started a blog! Take a peek. I hope you had a great time in seattle!
  • LudoTheGreat · 1 year ago
    This is probably the most truthful thing I have heard anyone say in years. This is going on my Blog.
  • Jared Goralnick · 1 year ago
    I suck at Cranium. And I'm sorry.
  • Scott Fox, Author of Internet · 1 year ago
    This is a clever and courageous post. Being honest that we are not all perfect is really refreshing.
    And playing to your strengths is smart.
    Enjoyed speaking with you today.
    Our interview together will be posted online at www.scottfoxradio.com tomorrow afternoon.
    Thanks,
    Scott
  • Greg · 1 year ago
    I AM GOOD AT BBQ AND GRILLING...NOW HAVE ME ON YOUR SHOW!!! :-)
  • Arnold Callego · 1 year ago
    This is so true Gary. Focusing on what you suck at is going to make it very difficult to accel in anything and can hold you back from aiming at your goals. Focusing on what you are good at will lead you to be productive, feel like you're doing something good, and not be in a miserable mind state of "I wish I.. if only I could.. I can't.." Thanks for your great thought!
  • iellie · 1 year ago
    Amen to that! Great message! I think everyone needs to start looking on the positive side more often then the negative.
  • Whitney Hess · 1 year ago
    Admitting what I suck at is exactly why I chose to quit my job. Now I'm happier than I've ever been as an independent consultant, getting paid pretty nicely to do exactly what I rock at, and only what I rock at.
  • Amy Flanagan · 1 year ago
    I think we should all stop worrying about what other people suck at, too. Let concentrate on what everybody's good at!
  • Sharon · 1 year ago
    The Jets suck! (not)
  • Kati Ryan · 1 year ago
    i rock @ talking to people.

    I suck @ sitting in front a computer all day.
  • Deano · 1 year ago
    I agree Gary....people are always looking at the negatives and never the positives....just focus on the positives :)
  • JosephRueter · 1 year ago
    Totally. This line of thinking is similar to the Gallop Strengths Finder. Basically, focus on your strengths... know them and how to use them. Then use them as work arounds for your weaknesses. It has been hugely helpful for me.

    Incidentally the Strengths Finder Assessment is the most most helpful of any I've interacted with personally. I think you can get its assessment of you via online tools if you're interested. https://www.strengthsfinder.com/

    Cheers!
  • Cliff · 1 year ago
    We all need reminding of this powerful concept ... concentrate on what you are good at and admire and respect others for what THEY are good at. It takes all kinds.
  • sebrOck · 1 year ago
    thanks for the reminder
  • Luke Irvin · 1 year ago
    Great point made Gary!
  • mbuchan · 1 year ago
    Very true. Do what you love, what you enjoy and it'll keep you happy.
  • Random · 7 months ago
    You suck!
  • Dybule · 7 months ago
    You suck.
  • Charlotte · 2 months ago
    Nice.
  • Chris · 2 months ago
    Very nice post. Really caught me off guard at first. I was thinking "What? Gary Vee saying that he sucks?? What's up with that! So unlike him".

    It's very true how much you need to stop focusing on the negatives and only deal with the positives. Pimp yourself up.
  • Dayne | TheHappySelf.com · 2 months ago
    100% agree. Focus on your strengths, and watch the world open in front of you with all kinds of possibilities! :)
  • Adam Teece · 2 months ago
    Damn right, I suck at a lot of things and I'm rapidly learning how to focus on the things that I rock at. Getting better all the time and I'm gonna rock the house.
  • hidama · 2 months ago
    I absolutely love this video. The great Gary V is so very human, and in that humanity acknowledges his weaknesses but continues to strive for quality.
  • Levi Bethune · 2 months ago
    Don't focus on what the JETS suck at.
  • davemerwin · 2 months ago
    Amen.
  • hardrowtohoevineyards · 2 months ago
    Yep, another way to say it " "Do what you can, not what you can't"!!
  • Malcolm Bastien · 2 months ago
    Ok, so in the past year have you tried at all to get better at what you sucked at?

    Or did you take the road of focusing just on what you know your strengths are?

    From the few examples I can remember off the top of my head, most of the time people who are at the front like you would recommend focusing on your strengths and becoming the best at that. I dunno, I've always seen overcoming weaknesses, or at least reducing the amount of suckage I have with them as a good challenge because this "suck" factor is all internal.

    Though if it's naturally just not in your nature, it might just be a frustrating struggle where you waste all your energy.

    Good thinkings.
  • Rasul · 2 months ago
    Gary, thank you very much for this one. I had a sucky day because I was too focused on what I've always sucked and what I still suck at...I needed this message. Thanks for keeping it real. U da man. By the way I really enjoyed your interview with Eric Worre and I bought your book on Kindle for the iPhone. I'm in the middle of it now.
  • ben fom boston · 2 months ago
    you know who sucks? THE J-E-T-S jets jets jets, S-U-C-K suck suck suck.

    Unfortunately I have alot in common with the Jets, No Consistancy.

    What am i good at? i'm not really sure, I think im just above average at a whole variety of things, but not great at any one thing and really bad at a couple of other things. I'm a dabbler, and that gary, is why I suck. you and your philosophies are a positive influence on my life none the less, so thank you for being you. Someday I hope to return that value.
  • jordanbrown · 2 months ago
    and stop watching fucking lost right?
  • alexanderpadilla · 2 months ago
    Agree! We spend too much time lamenting and not going forward with our strengths.
  • wendywhy · 2 months ago
    Great point! Sometimes I focus so hard on trying to fix what I suck at that I totally ignore things I do well. No one is the total package :)